Illustration by Monica Kim Garza.
Sex Tapes #2
Sex Tapes is a series of up front and anonymous interviews about the sex lives of various women.
Are you in a relationship?
Yes
How often do you have sex?
Around once a week, maybe once every two weeks.
Do you like having sex?
Yes I really like having sex. I like being naked with someone else I’m really into.
What’s your favourite thing to do when with a partner?
I love my girlfriend going down on me and I like sucking nipples.
What do you not like to do?
I don't like having sex with men.
Do you fake orgasms?
No.
Do you masturbate? If so how often?
If I’m travelling or my girlfriend is away I’ll masturbate everyday, sometimes more than once.
Do you cheat on your partners? If yes why?
I did when I was younger but I haven’t for ages and I wouldn’t do it now. If I didn’t want to be with someone I’d end it or I’d have the awareness of what feeling attracted to someone else means.
Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes, I caught an old girlfriend kissing someone else in the toilets of a club.
What’s the best sex you’ve ever had and why?
With a girl in Portugal I met when I was working there. She was incredible, so hot and sexy, almost like a cliché. She had the most amazing body and voice, I came without her even touching me more than once.
What’s been the worst sex?
I haven’t had any really bad sex. It might be a generalization but I think on the whole lesbians have better sex than straight women because we know what it feels like and we know what we like so it’s easier to please another woman. I’ve not been into someone I’ve slept with as much as other people so it wasn’t as good but nothing horrendous.
What do you fantasise about?
The girl in Portugal.
Would you ever act on your fantasies?
I sometimes text her when I’m not in a relationship and she sends me pussy shots.
What do you wish someone had told you about sex before you started having it?
That having sex can be the most beautiful thing and the most mundane thing. You don’t need to make such a big deal about it. You can sleep with people who you don’t really like and it’s ok. Having sex isn’t this big deal society makes it out to be.